Author: Ed
Date: 2022-06-19 19:05
There are some good suggestions above. Music can be tough because it is like a weird Twilight Zone episode. We often continue to move along, yet the destination may seem as if it only gets more distant. As you may be realizing, you are likely over thinking. Most of us have had that happen at one time or another. I know players who have played for years successfully who have told me that the longer they play the harder it gets, which seems again like classic overthinking. Try to remember why you love music and try not to think too hard about the mechanics of the music, but about what you are trying to express.
Sometimes we have to learn to enjoy the journey and where we are at the moment and not think too hard about the long term destination. It is like traveling. Remember to stop and enjoy where you are at the moment. Look at where you have been and what you have accomplished.
Remember that each one of us is individual and travels our own path through life. You can only live your life. Comparing yourself to others is a waste of time. Like in a garden, each flower blooms when it is ready. Often we hit plateaus in our lives and our studies where progress is slow or very small.
Some random suggestions-
Maybe take some lessons with someone different over the summer.
Play though some things that seem easy just for fun.
If you are playing and feeling really frustrated with something, don't be afraid to put it down and go do something else.
Perhaps take a week or two off to mentally and physically recharge. Think about other things, enjoy other activities. Try to come back with a fresh mind.
When I was in college I recall a horn player who I never thought was a good player. He often struggled hitting pitches accurately, his tone was often a little choked. I was a little frustrated when I was assigned to play in a quintet with him. after a number of weeks he came in to one rehearsal and sounded really good- much more accurate and with a robust rich tone. I asked him what he changed. He replied that his teacher told him he was practicing too much and had suggested he take time off and scale back his practicing. It was a wonderful insightful suggestion.
Good luck! Please let us know how things go.
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