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Re: Brand

Author: Dan Shusta
Date: 2017-08-23 10:35

GenEric,

Karl, kdk, as usual, has given you some very solid advice. I regard Karl as one of the most respected members on this BB.

As I read through your posting, I had to determine what was actually going on. I had to name it and define it. It appears that you are experiencing very hurtful "verbal abuse".

I've included some clickable links below to some authoritative psychological articles that are instructive in dealing with verbal abuse. Hopefully, they, along with the advice given above, will help you with your problem.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hide-and-seek/201302/how-deal-insults-and-put-downs

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/how-handle-sarcasm-insults-put-downs-arnold-sanow

gwie, IMHO, appears to have hit a "home run" with his response. It is good to be prepared with responses to verbal abusers when it appears necessary.

Post Edited (2017-08-23 10:43)

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