Author: GoodWinds ★2017 
Date:   2010-07-21 16:46 
 Well, lots of stories, but I'm with Mike's first comment:  what does she Like?  When pressed by parents with this question, I usually respond that if the child is GaGa about (keenly interested in) the oboe, let her give it a whirl.  If her interest is half-hearted, then it's probably not THE instrument for her.  
 
I play both clarinet and oboe, and if I just want to relax and sound good, I'll pull out the clarinet.  If I want a challenge and/or feel like adjusting reeds, I'll get out the oboe or English horn.   
 
I am NOT a disciplied practicer, which is the main reason I did not go professional.  If your daughter wants to become a professional musician, it's a lot of practice time and self-discipline.   
 
However, I get very much enjoyment from playing in community groups, and even from 'subbing' (substituting for professionals) now and then.  The oboe is for me very much a need-based instrument:  if I have a show, I'll work hard for weeks on end to be the best oboist I can be.  If I don't, I tend to coast.   
 
I found that the clarinet was by far easier to pick up again, after years away from it, than the oboe (in a 38-yr period, I took one 7-yr 'break' from woodwinds).   
 
Lots to consider!!  Stick close to what seems to give your daughter the most pleasure;  My dad bought me a professional-level instrument when I was a sophomore in high school, and I have always been so grateful for his trust and encouragement.   
 
mary 
 
GoodWinds
  
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