Author: Taras12
Date: 2013-05-31 02:32
Peter, Perhaps your past experiences have caused you to become sadly cynical. What you failed to recognize was that Jay was doing his "research." What better place than to ask for guidance. Better yet to have a talented professional give him direction to find the information. Too bad, your professional response was to belittle and demean him. May you be released from these experiences, which has caused you, in turn, to perpetuate this cynical attitude in others. The Buddha once taught that anger is like picking up and throwing a hot coal.
Garth, While I'm not an artist, performer or musician, your experiences are an echo of mine as an intern, resident and practicing physician, who mentors students, interns and residents. We teach using the Socratic method, which at times is a bit cold and harsh. I have seen this method used to both encourage or demean. My fondest memories are those who never gave the direct answer, but showed me where to look. One can be firm and kind, challenging without being cruel. That, in my opinion, is the mark of an outstanding mentor. I wish you success, but more importantly, peace and an end to your bitterness as you pursue the clarinet.
Tristan
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