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Re: A Sensitive Question

Author: SunnyDaze
Date: 2024-04-24 00:00

Hi Mark,

Thank you very much for reponding to that in so much detail. I've been really confused about what the unspoken rules are, and it's really helpful to hear you spell it out.

By your definition above, it seems as though I do still fit here which is very encouraging. Having said that, there are many threads where it would have been a kindness for someone to give me this hint in-thread: "This is a digression from the current thread, please search the archive and then start a new thread if you still feel your question is unanswered."

I think there must be others like me who are reading in silence to avoid conflict, and who could maybe join in again with a bit of guidance on how to fit in.

I know of at least one very well regarded professional who has mailed me offlist to say that they are a lurker but don't dare post because of the fear of conflict. I definitely think that a bit of a kindly discussion of how to stay safe on the BBoard could really help bring people back.

Karl's suggestion to stay logged out while reading has helped me be less trigger-happy, which has been good. I haven't got a footer yet, but will think about it.

Thank you very much for explaining the rules.

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