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 Re: When is enough enough?
Author: Jack Kissinger 
Date:   2004-03-11 11:41

LeWhite,

One of the great things about colleges and universities is that, while you are there, you have an opportunity to explore a wide range of interests to find just what it is you want to do with your life. Many students change their course of study as they grow, mature and find new opportunities they weren't aware of when they were younger. As they progress in their studies to an advanced level - from algebra to advanced calculus, from elementary accounting to advanced, from Stamitz to Ferneyhough - most experience some self-doubt along the way but some also come to realize that they don't have the interest (or, in some cases, aptitude) to master the complexities of the field they find themselves in. Soul searching such as you are going through now is a natural occurrence. As a university professor, I see it frequently.

I think the first question you must sort out is whether you are going through a temporary phase of self-doubt or whether you have come to a permanent realization. If the former, it's important to find that out so that you can put it behind you. If the latter, waiting 2 years to begin planning a transition to another field is probably too long. Your teacher obviously sees talent in you or s/he would not be recommending that you continue your course. But your teacher may not be the best person to advise you. Your school should have some central counseling/career advising professionals who are trained to provide guidance in situations like yours. I can't stress enough how important it is that you talk to them. They can help you sort out your feelings, discover your aptitudes and explore career choices. You may find that you are fine where you are (though the symptoms you describe suggest otherwise). It may be, however, that you want a major shift (e.g., to engineering or history or literature, or business) or it may be that you only need a minor adjustment (e.g., to music therapy or music education or music business). Finding out requires face-to-face work with a trained professional. While you will likely hear some personal stories and general advice from the members of this board, keep in mind that, because of the limited contact we have with you, they may not be relevant to your specific situation. Good luck in your search.

Best regards,
jnk
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