Klarinet Archive - Posting 000476.txt from 2004/11

From: kimi <kimi_kimy@-----.com>
Subj: Re: [kl] Trust
Date: Fri, 12 Nov 2004 20:40:23 -0500

Trust just doesn't happen as you well know Tony.
Trust is something that is usually earned. My daughter
isn't the only one that had her instrument sitting
there with her bookbag ready to go home that day. And
I can sit here and argue this point till I'm blue in
the face.

What I can say is, this has taught my daughter not to
leave anything of hers where it can be accessed by
other people. So lesson well learned.

k

--- Tony Pay <tony.p@-----.org> wrote:

> On 13 Nov, kimi <kimi_kimy@-----.com> wrote:
>
> > --- Tony Pay <tony.p@-----.org> wrote:
>
> > > Is she 'not to be trusted', or did she just make
> a silly mistake, and can
> > > be thought to be worthy of our trust from now
> on?
> >
> > How can you trust somebody that is sneaky?
>
> Your daughter trusted her (and everyone else) by
> leaving her clarinet so that
> it was possible for it to be interfered with, whilst
> assuming that no-one
> would.
>
> It's clear that the girl then violated her trust,
> even though she apologised
> for doing so.
>
> Now, it's an indubitable truth that when you trust
> people, you can be
> *really* sure that every now and then, someone will
> violate your trust.
>
> Then, you have a choice. Do you say that you won't
> trust that person ever
> again, because they've shown that they aren't
> trustworthy? Or, do you say
> that they *made a mistake*, sort it out with them,
> and then renew your trust
> of them? And, renew your trust of others?
>
> Your daughter has a choice, just like my son had a
> choice.
>
> Of course, no-one violated my son's trust -- it was
> just that he was
> persuaded at a very vulnerable moment in his life
> that *it was wrong and
> dangerous* to trust people. It took a long time for
> him to get out of that,
> and it damaged him.
>
> On the whole, I myself trust people. I recommend
> it. The idea of doing so
> may make a big difference in the world. And,
> actually, I even find that I
> trust people that have 'made mistakes' with me more
> than I trust others, in
> general.
>

=====

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He says that she says that you say that i said that this person says

Never put your faith in people, you may be disappointed

I tried to kill the pain,
But only brought more,
(so much more)
I'm dying
And I'm pouring, crimson regret, and betrayal.

I'm dying, Praying, Bleeding, Screaming,
Am I too lost to be saved?
Am I too lost?

My wounds cry for the grave,
My soul cries for deliverance,
Will I be denied?
Christ! tourniquet! suicide.

Evanescence

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