Klarinet Archive - Posting 000480.txt from 2003/08

From: "Patricia A. Smith" <patricia@-----.net>
Subj: Re: [kl] The Lure of Certainty
Date: Tue, 19 Aug 2003 13:51:34 -0400

Tony Pay wrote:

>I regret writing in a previous message: "Why do women always fall for precisely the men that treat themn BADLY?" because although it's a good example of a particular circumstance in which someone -- the man -- who behaves very clearly and definitely may be attractive, regardless of what he actually *does* to you, it's so fascinating in itself that we lose sight of the general problem.
>
>And I wanted to stick with the general problem and the clarinet stuff, really.
>
Tony, if you ever get tired of clarinet, I think psychology needs you! :)

I've been guilty of wondering the same thing about men!

There is a general problem with human nature being attracted to that
which abuses it - and putting up with it long after it is no longer
helpful! Heaven only knows I've done that to myself in life.

Patricia Smith

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