Klarinet Archive - Posting 000365.txt from 2001/03

From: Bob and Deborah Shaw <theshaws@-----.com>
Subj: Re: [kl] band rivals
Date: Wed, 14 Mar 2001 16:23:40 -0500

Maybe sharing the same teacher will serve to make you better friends. The only
person you can control is you (like noone ever said that to you before!). Music
should be about teamwork and making beautiful music as a group. Maybe if you can
display this attitude, it might be contagious. Good luck to you. bob

NothingToHide15@-----.com wrote:

> This is just an interesting tidbit on a situation that I am encountering.
> There is not much to be gained from this, other than maybe a little
> entertainment and a recollection.
>
> If you were not always the solo chair, hot-shot player, you will probally be
> able to relate to me. See, this girl Megan currently has the solo chair
> position (atleast in freshman band) and there is no descrepancy that she
> should have it. Of course there is that jealousy between us and her
> uneasiness that I may someday be able to pass her, but I have always tried my
> hardest to be civil. Recently, she has started talking about me right across
> the room in class and putting me down every time that I make a mistake. So
> then today, my band director told her of my clarinet teacher to give a call
> to look into private lessons. Then, he asked me to give it to her. Now, no
> matter what my feeling are towards her, I will give it to her, but that is
> just getting me mad. I am going to talk to my clarinet teacher today, because
> we have a very good relationship and ask him if maybe he could just recomend
> her to someone and not take her on. He's very busy anyway. If not, that's
> just something else to deal with. In all honesty, I wish her the best of
> luck, I just wish this fighting could stop. We are going to be together for
> another four years.
>
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